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Home alone

I have been waiting for homesickness to kick in. This far it is nowhere to be found. There has been some grumpy days or more likely grumpy evenings, not even whole days yet. I have been wondering why is that.. Of course we are just three weeks in, so I really cant tell just yet. This far everything has been new and exciting, even the first week at the hospital. Even though I now know roughly how my everyday life here will be it isn’t yet that everydaily to me.

In addition to the all new things here, I think there is more to this than just wondering about new. Here I’m all the time surrounded by people. In dorm I have my roommates, at hospital there is usually other students along with the advisors and patients who are all communicating with me. Then there is my travel companion who goes to have lunch (and dinner) with me most of the days. On weekends there is usually some activity where I go somewhere with someone from Finland or some locals. To be honest, I’m more lonely in Finland than I am in here. It is not just the surroundings, I’m more social in here too. Maybe because I feel that I have to.

Now my Finnish roommate is moving to another city and I feel quite sad about it. It has been fun to have someone similar in here. Even though many times when we are home at the same time we sit back to back on our computers without talking that much. But it is not all about talking, it is the possibility to share my daily life with someone who understands my language and the cultural background I’m coming from. I will still have my travel companion, fortunately. Before I consideret it strange to hang out with people from the same country while abroad. Why would one want to do that when there is so great an opportunity to get to know some locals?!? Now I understand. If I was the only Finn here, I would feel much more alone and homesick.